Compassion is the key component for a conscious observer. Our kindness must begin within and then extend outward. Treat yourself with love and patience. Most people have learned how to treat others well in order to bring out the best in them; however, the inner voice remains critical toward the self. Just as it does with external relationships, criticism activates ego generated defense mechanisms and blocks our ability to grow.

Create your own sacred rituals of self-kindness and set aside time each day to make inner balance and well-being a priority. You’ll notice subtle changes in the way you think and the expectations you have for yourself. Love yourself in such a way that your soul sparkles with magic and excitement and peacefulness.

Blaming and complaining are very closely aligned. They create an atmosphere of victim-hood and ensure that we remain stuck in negativity. When either arises in your experience, and the mind seeks to begin a litany of “why”, choose instead to take complete ownership of your own experience and make peace with the present moment.

Eckhart Tolle teaches that there are three options available when we find ourselves in an untenable situation: leave it, change it or accept it. Sometimes it takes a bit of exploration to determine which is best in a given situation; however, it’s important to remember that one approach must ultimately be chosen if we are to create grace and peace in our own experience.

The scourge of victim-hood is the tendency to complain without taking conscious action or to blame others (or life itself) for our lack of movement. As one becomes more self-aware, he or she discovers the joy of personal responsibility. Life provides several areas in which we can practice empowerment and acceptance.

One way to accelerate your awakening is to become someone’s teacher. When you find yourself in a position where you are called upon to share your beliefs, there is tremendous opportunity. The teacher/student karma provides an opportunity for you to articulate what you have learned. This articulation reinforces the knowledge that you purport to live by.

When we speak our truth, there is a greater likelihood of being held accountable by those around us. Your spirituality is aligned to authenticity and consistent behavior. Interwoven in the teacher/student experience is the need to bring a higher awareness to the day-to-day choices that we make.

Divine intelligence seeks to express itself through you. So, whether interacting with others or experiencing moments of solitude, examine your choices and your approach to life to ensure that your thoughts, words and actions are in harmony with your inner truth. Let your life be your message.

Consider how much would get accomplished in your experience if none of your energy was wasted “trying” to get others to do something, “fixing” things you feel are wrong or “worrying” about the future. Trying, fixing and worrying are leaks that steal your life force. Allow everything and everyone around you to flourish without interference.

This mindful approach demonstrates a trust in the flow of the universe. Your light of consciousness transforms all that it shines upon. The Tao te Ching teaches that in doing nothing, everything gets done. Give yourself permission to just be. This creates space in your relationships and in that space, growth is possible. Be the awakened and beautiful soul who allows life to be as it is while supporting others to evolve in their own way.

You make a difference. We make a difference. When enough awakened beings choose to bring joy to the present moment, the energy transforms. Create a pocket of light in your experience and be an inspiration to those with whom you interact. Yes, you may feel momentarily disconnected from the drama of the day and the “did you hear?” stories; however, there is truly no need to participate in the seriousness of the human condition.

Masters are often seen as very simple people. They do not hunger for power or attach to outcomes. They tend to stay close to nature and find joy in the little things. Each of us can make choices that bring us into greater alignment with the Divine. Choose to simplify your own experience to heighten your spiritual awareness.

Pay attention. Slow down and enjoy your food. Put down the phone for hours at a time and purposely engage with life itself. Know that you can be fulfilled through your celebration and playfulness.

In the midst of chaos and confusion, all is well. When things fall apart, there is an opportunity to let go of expectation and desire and simply do our best in the present moment. Teach yourself the joy of being at ease during unexpected circumstances.

When people strive for perfection, they seek to exert mental and physical control in a world that is messy and unpredictable. Rather than demanding a specific outcome, practice doing your best and working with the resulting energy. Then, imperfection becomes your teacher. The result? Humor, peace, laughter, joy….

You are a powerful co-creator in your life experience. There is nothing more beautiful than someone who is consistently authentic and untroubled. Life is what it is. Are you choosing to enjoy it?

We tend to get so wrapped up in our physical life experiences, thoughts and expectations that we can forget to be grateful for the many things and gifts that flow to us in every moment. Recognize that each and every day you can purposely choose how you will respond to the events that unfold. Rather than carrying the energy from yesterday into the Now, step into the realm of infinite possibility.

Periodically spend an entire day in gratitude. No matter what unfolds or whether the moment is exalted or mundane; pause, breathe deeply three times, observe and move into gratitude. There is a significant difference between practicing gratitude as clean water flows from the tap – seeing it as a nourishing gift, appreciating the thousands of people who have contributed to this experience, honoring it as sacred and therefore choosing to be mindful in its usage – and simply using it and moving on without another thought. One thing you may discover is how often you are not grateful. This counter-intuitive process may open your eyes to the subtle ways that expectation and attachment sabotage your peace of mind throughout the day.

The willingness to approach life with a little magic ensures that a spark of limitless potential will infuse all that you do and experience. This empowered choice teaches us that it’s possible to be inwardly grateful and joyous even when challenges arise.